Hooking up in bars and clubs can often be difficult enough if you are single, but being married can often add just one more difficulty into the equation. You might not want towaste time trying to hook up with a different woman each night, especially if you want to have a long term affair so that you don’t have to search for new women all the time. Knowing how to pick out a woman who will be the perfect mistress might seem impossible, but in reality there are some key traits you should be looking for when you begin your search. Keeping these in mind when you hit the dating scene will help you be more efficient when hooking up.
Seeking out a Mature Woman
“Mature women have a greater sex appeal”
An important aspect of any mistress is maturity. If you decide to have an affair with a woman and she lacks this quality, you can wind up in a world of trouble later on down the line. Women who lack maturity will be much more difficult to have an affair with because they will lack boundaries and the discretion that you want out of an affair. Dating a woman who is immature means that she may become clingy, which means that she may expect things from you that you cannot supply. Clingy women will want to meet up more often as things progress, which can lead to dangerous situations later on if your wife becomes suspicious of the increasing amount of time you spend out of the house.
Quiet Girls May Be Better
“Beware of talkative girls”
While you may be used to going after outgoing and talkative women, this can be risky in the grand scheme of things. A woman who is very talkative and popular may not be as discreet as you want her to be, and this can lead to trouble down the line. She may wind up telling all of her friends that she’s dating a married guy, and she may even give them your personal information. Some women make it their life’s mission to rat out guys who have affairs, and one of her friends may very well come after you or try to tell your wife. If you introduce your mistress to your friends, she may wind up being indiscreet with them as well. Quiet women may be the better choice for you, since she’s probably going to be better at keeping secrets.
Avoiding Party Girls
Avoiding girls who seem to like partying a bit too much is also probably a good idea. Party girls may not make good mistresses because they’re a bit too flighty, and they may be indiscreet just like immature girls or talkative girls. There is also the issue of sexual health, and girls who sleep around a lot may not be your best option when it comes to choosing someone to have an affair with. The last thing you want to do is contract a sexual disease that you then have to tell your wife about, so you may want to be careful when you pick a mistress.