If you decide to have an affair because your married sex life is suffering, you’re probably excited to find a mistress so that you can start having sex regularly once again. This is obviously one of the biggest benefits of having a woman on the side, but there can sometimes be too much of a good thing. If you start hooking up with your mistress on a regular basis, you might run into the problem of actually having too much sex with her. This might seem impossible to you now, but it can definitely happen and there are some clear drawbacks to this issue.
Your Wife Might Notice Something Is Different
“Your wife will come to know about your changed behavior”
If your wife is used to you trying to get her to have sex on a regular basis, she may notice something has changed. Once you start having regular sex with your mistress, chances are that you’re not going to want or need as much sex with your wife. There is always a chance that your wife will pick up on the fact that you’re asking her about sex much less often, and while she may not immediately suspect you of cheating, it’s sure to raise questions. You can usually come up with some kind of excuse to explain your changed behavior, but if you want to avoid suspicion at all costs you should try to avoid this. Don’t go overboard when hooking up with your mistress so that you still have enough energy to try and convince your wife to sleep with you.
It Can Make Your Marriage Deteriorate More
If you weren’t having much sex with your wife to begin with, it may not make too much of a difference if you sleep with your mistress more and more often. However, if you had a decent but boring sex life, the sudden lack of interest you show in your wife can seriously damage your relationship. An unhappy wife is more likely to become suspicious, so while you may want to have sex with your mistress at every chance, you may want to slow things down slightly. It’s important to keep the balance between your wife and mistress so that neither becomes more important to you. Not heeding this advice can easily lead to trouble for you further down the line.
There Are More Chances of Getting Caught
“So my suspicion was true”
The more you hook up with your mistress, the more chances you have of being caught. You may become more comfortable with the affair, which can make you less cautious and lead to making questionable choices as to where and when you hook up. The riskier your sex with your mistress gets, the more danger you face of getting caught. Hooking up with your mistress slightly less than you would really like to and making sure to be cautious will keep you safe. Just remember not to get complacent and start thinking that you can get away with anything. It’s when you stop worrying so much that you’re likely to get caught.