When you start having affairs, you might think that the only woman you will need to lie to is your wife so that you can keep the affair a secret. However, you’ll be surprised to know that you may need to lie to your mistress quite often as well. It might be difficult for you to lie to your mistress, especially if you don’t go into the affair expecting to have to do so. Knowing the tips you need to know in order to lie to your mistress more effectively will allow you to make the affair more fulfilling in general. It can also keep you safer in the long run, so lying to your mistress might be an important aspect of your affair.
Lying about Your Current Relationship
“No baby, I am single”
If your mistress is under the impression that you’re not married or that you’re going to be getting a divorce soon, you need to be able to keep the deception up. Most affairs wind up ending badly because the mistress suddenly finds out that you’re married and not planning to get a divorce. If you tell your mistress one thing, you need to be consistent throughout the relationships. Your mistress probably doesn’t want to hear that you plan to stay with your wife, so you will probably want to try to convince her that your relationship is on the rocks and that you’ll be getting a divorce eventually. Knowing what your mistress wants to hear will help you have a successful affair.
Lying to Her from the Start
“I never had a girlfriend”
If you want to keep your mistress particularly removed from your personal life, you probably want to lie to her from the beginning. Keeping her deceived about your personal life, for example, might be important if it would make things riskier for you. If your wife is particularly suspicious, it’s important to try and keep things separate. Lie to your mistress about your job and where you work, especially if you work with your wife, because this way there’s no way for your mistress to show up at your place of work unexpectedly. You may want to lie about where you live or any number of other personal details so that you can maintain as much discretion as possible.
Keeping up the Lies
When you want to keep up a lie over a long period of time it’s important to know how to keep from slipping up. Keep your lies simple enough so that you can remember them later on. The more elaborate you get, the more difficult it will be for you to remember. Try to keep the lies close to the truth so that you have a better chance of keeping it up over time instead of possibly slipping up. It’s also important that you don’t have to repeat the lie too often, since the more you have to lie, the more likely you are to get in trouble and slip up on accident. Lying will become easier over time, so try not to sweat it and keep yourself calm.