As a guy, sex always seems to be on the mind. Sex with everything: your wife, the checkout lady at the grocery store, fake sex toys. You name it, we want to bang it. Eventually having sex with the same trim just doesn’t cut it anymore. At the point of being together for a few years most guys at least start considering having an affair. The thing is that you still love your wife or girlfriend. Well, then the best way to have an affair is to do it publically. Getting your wife’s permission to sleep with someone else isn’t easy, but it’s going to make your life a lot easier than hiding one.
The fear for a woman when she hears that her husband wants to have sex with someone else is that it’s because he doesn’t really want her anymore. When you bring the subject up make sure to be as loving and reassuring as yo u possibly can. Let her know that she is still very sexy to you, but you are trying to make sure that you don’t cheat on her and ruin what you have. Having sex with someone else isn’t a substitute, it’s just something that would make things more exciting, and for both of you even. Let her know that you’re being honest because you don’t want to hurt or disrespect her. Concentrate on the benefits of seeing other people while still being together.
“Explain her the whole situation in a positive way”
You aren’t just asking your girlfriend or wife to let you off the hook to bang whoever you want. When you’re asking for the opportunity to have sex with someone else it would be a really big dick move to assume that she shouldn’t have the same freedom. When both of you are seeing other people it’s called being in an open relationship. It’s not uncommon either. There are plenty of couples out there that do this. The key is to get her to join you in looking at it from the perspective of just sex. Eventually there could be room to have something more and really have a few partners, but let’s not jump into that now. Just start with the basics and work your way up.
Take It Slow
“Talk about it slowly otherwise it might lead to this situation”
It might take a few talks to get your wife to be even remotely open to the idea of seeing other people. In that case, as soon as she seems a little bit willing, propose a trial run. Your trial run will include finding a woman and going on a date with her. It would be best for your wife not to meet her at this stage in the game. Reassure her that you’re only going out for dinner to see what would happen on a different night. Encourage your wife to do the same thing. If it’s at all possible schedule your dates for the same night so that neither of you are worrying about what the other one is doing. After you get comfortable with this you can move on to actually having sex.