Maybe you never thought you would cheat, or maybe you always had a feeling you would but you never really thought about it. No matter how you ended up here, the facts are the same. You want to have an affair and have a relationship on the side of your marriage, either because you’re not being satisfied in bed or you’re not being satisfied emotionally. There’s no real guide on how to cheat and have a successful affair, especially given that it is quite the taboo in modern society, so you may be confused as to what will bring you success in cheating. Knowing where to start will help make sure that you have the most successful affair possible.
Discretion Is the Key
“Do not tell anyone about your affair. Not even your friends”
When you have a mistress, you have to make sure that she won’t find a way to contact your wife and let her know what’s going on. You also want to make sure that your wife doesn’t accidentally walk in on you having sex with your mistress. Discretion and secrecy are the most important aspects to a successful affair, since being discovered will do you absolutely no favors. You have to be as discreet as possible when you have an affair, which means that you have to make sure your wife doesn’t become suspicious. Don’t have any obvious signs that you are cheating, such as texts or emails from your mistress on your phone or computer.
Being on the Same Page
Making sure that your mistress knows exactly what she is getting into is often more important than you might think. Women who discover later on that they are the other woman are usually not receptive to continuing the relationship, and she may even try to get revenge on you. You can avoid this by being upfront about what you want from an affair and letting your mistress know that you are married. This clear communication can only make the relationship better for the both of you, so make sure to be clear and communicate with your mistress. If you are both on the same page, there’s much less chance for disaster.
Having Good Excuses and Explanations
“Have an answer ready to all her questions”
If you don’t know how to lie to your wife and come up with excuses or explanations as to why you’ve been acting differently, your affair is doomed from the start. You need to have the time and ability to go out with your mistress on a regular basis without arousing suspicion. Many guys use work as an excuse for the time they spend with their mistress, and this may work for you too. However, no matter what you choose as your cover story, it has to be believable and you need to have some sort of alibi to back it up. If you go into an affair without having reasonable excuses to back up your sudden absences and long trips, you stand a much higher chance of being discovered by your wife. Come up with a cover story that sounds plausible and you should be safe.