You might be thinking of trying to have a little outside fun since you and your wife haven’t been having as much sex. Well, it’s a good idea in and of itself, but think of the repercussions. If you start getting it on with another woman and then your wife finds out you’re going to be at the very best stuck in marriage counseling. At worst you’re going to get divorced and lose half of everything. The best route to go when you want an affair is to actually convince your wife to have one first. It sounds backwards, but it works out better than you’d think.
Why You Should Say It
“Tell her that you don’t want to cheat”
All right, so try to imagine yourself in the place of your wife. Husband comes up and says “Hey I want to have sex with all of the other ladies.” You’ll freak out because your emotional connection obviously isn’t enough to keep him happy. That doesn’t sound like fun, does it? So instead of doing that you should suggest that both of you have an affair. The reason isn’t all that crazy. If one of you does it, the other one should be able to as well. But the whole technique of getting her to have an affair first is to use that as leverage so that you can also get in on the fun. If she does it first and sees how much fun it can be, hopefully she would at least understand why you’d want to do it too. Sometimes it makes it easier to suggest that she does the whole thing first before you even start looking at women.
Why She’ll Want to Do It
“She might give you the permission if you ask”
When you mention all of this and she finally considers it is because she’ll be excited. There are many reasons why a woman might not want to have sex as much as she used to. Most of the time there’s an emotional connection that’s missing or she’s gotten too comfortable with you. Women can keep up with sex as well as we can in the beginning, but once they get used to it, a woman can hold out for a really long time without even noticing that sex hasn’t happened in over three months. But introduce that spark of excitement back and it will get her fire going again. Most likely she’ll have thought of sleeping with another guy before, so giving her the opportunity to do that will make her feel like she did in the beginning again.
One of the biggest pros of having affairs is that it, more often than not, actually makes the original relationship ever. It’s a little confusing, but when you start feeling those butterflies in your stomach again after so much time being bored, you look at your lady in a different way. Pretty much the competition puts a fire under you and puts a spark back into your relationship. Just make sure you can still please your wife so she doesn’t end up leaving you.