Being the Nice Guy at the Bar

“Talk to her politely”

When guys go out to try and find a fine young woman to take home for the evening they tend to be putting on their best guy act. That best guy act tends to seem way to over confident and puts off a lot of women. So when you go out, you’re going to be smart. You’re going to be the nice guy at the bar. Not the “nice guy” who only acts that way to get close to women and feel them up or buy them drinks. But the genuine man who doesn’t have any ill intentions (until later maybe). This tactic pays off way better than going at it the typical way.

Don’t Go Out of Your Way

It sounds counterintuitive, but don’t go out of your way to be nice to her. When a guy comes up to a lady at the bar and starts to talk to her, it all seems fine and dandy if the drinks are flowing. But it’s the overly cheesy conversation paired with the “Can I buy you a drink?” only makes it seem like you’re not being genuine. Going out of your way at the bar comes off as fake to everyone, so any attempt you’re even trying will be shot down before you even get a chance.

Tip Well and Properly

“Tip him so that he gives you a special treatment”

Lots of drunken people either tip very well because they’re drunk or tip poorly because…well they’re drunk. When you are in their consistently tipping a proper amount the bar tender is going to remember. The same goes for any woman who’s not completely wasted by then. Having a bartender on your side is one of the best things you can get. Bartenders are gods in the nightclub world. They can mix drinks to your liking and serve you first if you’re on their good side. You can guess what the bad side might hold. So tipping him or her well can get you some benefits. Those benefits will definitely interest any woman since she’d like to have faster, stronger drinks.

Don’t Scramble for Attention

If you’re shouting or whistling inside of the bar you’re going to look like a complete asshole. You want all of the attention and don’t care what others need if you do stuff like this. So instead just use a properly toned voice to get around. Saying please and thank you can get you through a crowd without stepping on anyone or disrupting conversations. Women like polite guys.

When you aren’t scrambling for attention you actually come off as being a man of mystery. If you’ve seen any James Bond movie then you know that that’s kryptonite to most women. They want to know all about you and find that the less they know about you, the sexier you are. Using the silent, brooding look can really get you women fast if you know how to use it. Order your drink and stand in a spot that’s not too far off from the crowd.


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