Sending your mistress a sext can be very tempting, especially if you don’t get to see her as often as you would like. Chances are that you don’t get many chances to sext anyone, especially if your wife isn’t particularly into the idea of sexting. While sexting your mistress might seem like a good idea at the time, it can actually be a very bad idea and it might be something you want to avoid at all costs. Knowing why you shouldn’t sext your mistress can be what makes your affair a successful one and keeps you from getting caught by your wife.
She Might Not Appreciate It
“She’ll think you to be too desperate for sex”
Some women just don’t like the idea of sexting, and your mistress might be one of them. You can try to sext her and she may even respond, but there’s always a chance that she really doesn’t like it and would prefer if you wouldn’t. Sometimes sexting can be a good way of building anticipation and getting your mistress excited about seeing you again, but only if you know for certain that she will actually appreciate it. Going through the trouble of trying to sext your mistress only to find out that she doesn’t really care for it will be a major waste of your time and effort, so it may be time to consider trying something else in order to get her attention.
It’s Much More Difficult to Hide
“Now you need to hide this picture in your phone”
Texting your mistress is one thing, since you can always put her down under a different name and pretend it’s one of your friends. However, any kind of text from your mistress is going to be much more difficult to hide than anything else because your wife can look at your phone at any time. If you keep your phone locked, she’s going to want to know why, and she may even demand you keep it open or give her the passcode if she’s particularly suspicious. This means that she can check your texts at any time, even if you make sure to delete your mistress’ texts as soon as you read them. It’s very difficult to hide sexts from your wife, which is one major reason why you should avoid sexting if you can.
It’s Nearly Impossible to Explain
If your wife finds out that you’ve been sexting, it’s very nearly impossible to explain away and you may as well have been caught in the act of actually cheating. Trying to come up with some kind of excuse will be extremely difficult, if not impossible. Chances are that your wife will view sexting as being the same as physically cheating, and it will be difficult to convince her otherwise. Your best bet is to avoid sexting altogether unless you have an extra phone, which can be suspicious enough to begin with. Avoiding being caught sexting is often too difficult to really bother with it at all. You may want to stick to hooking up physically instead of risking your relationship over a few words on a cell phone.